Refinding the Balance

It’s now getting towards the hot season in Texas, and I am taking a break from trialing.

Just in time. In the last month or so, I have found myself getting very impatient with Yeti, casting a critical eye over his containers work—why doesn’t he actually WORK them? He runs around sourcing odor from five feet away…I will never be able to tell when he is “done” at the Masters level in AKC… and wondering why it takes him so long to move to source in exteriors. The critical voices are loud, and demand action. I have spent some time plotting to try and improve my search times, hatching elaborate plans to make him sniff the containers more systematically, and trying to mark his behavior on exterior hides before he starts serious sourcing, in an effort to improve his searches.

And then yesterday, I caught sight of a sticky note on my refrigerator: “Comparison is the thief of joy.”

I don’t know who said this, I don’t even remember when I wrote it down and stuck it on there, but it suddenly really struck home.

I realized that my frustration with Yeti was caused not by his incompetence in searching, but by too much trialing. Too much comparing him to older more experienced dogs. Too much wondering about placements. Why didn’t he place, or why didn’t he place higher. Too much expectation. Too much pressure. Too much wondering about what other people might be thinking. Too much wondering if I was doing the right thing in training. Too much.

I have gotten off balance, I have forgotten why I got into this sport. Recently,  I have been sucked into the race for ribbons and titles, spent too much time on Facebook looking at other people’s braggy posts.

You might think that the whole purpose of trialing is comparison. Isn’t that what placements are all about? Isn’t a first place ribbon proof that you are better than all of the other competitors?

Well yes and no.

I enjoy my placements, I revel in them, even, but I am also very aware that placements are largely a matter of luck. Unlike most other sports, where the playing field is the same for every competitor, it is next to impossible to set hides in scentwork and have the conditions be the same for all the dogs. There are just too many variables in scent work: weather changes, room temperature changes, AC or heat come on and off, creating air movement. Did the dog in front of you find that hide? Then your dog’s chances of finding it are higher. If the dog in front of you just falsed, your challenge just became harder. The list of variables  goes on and on.

I consider a qualification more important than a placement and that Q is validation of my training techniques. It tells me that I am on the right path, and I am communicating clearly with my partner.

But when I start obsessing over the placements….that is the warning signal that tells me that I have done too much trialing.

It is time to recapture the joy.

Time to go to an empty field, toss some hides out randomly, let Yeti off leash, and watch him dance with the wind, use the incredible gift of his nose to work out the locations of the source. Watch him revel in the joy of running and sniffing and running, using the power of his body to do what it was meant to do. Just watch.

Recapture the primal nature of the human-canine hunting partnership. Remember what it is to be alive and  working and communicating with a being who is not of your species. Just be.

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9 responses to “Refinding the Balance”

  1. Peter Avatar
    Peter

    Ellen: had to smile when reading your newest post. Don’t beat yourself up, you are just now realizing what you have to do when working dogs in any venue, more so when you have other dogs young or old around doing the same activities. You have to stop let the dog mature, work on play skills social skills, have fun. areas and start again in the fall. I speck for me, but I know others will agree you have done well in the Scent work department, not only for yourself but for others. I watched many dogs over the years being worked to death for the lack of self-awareness of what theirs needs are or the needs of the handlers. There is nothing wrong in gratification of doing well in any area of the dog world. We always take the wins better than the negatives. But I know for me there is always a beginning and some in between never the end the always something to learn from and the dogs, they teach us well, if we listen.

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  2. Darlene Avatar
    Darlene

    Thanks for this. As both me and my dogs are getting old the green ribbon is what is important, a placement is just an added bonus.

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  3. ericheavner@verizon.net Avatar
    ericheavner@verizon.net

    Great post. Good advice for most activities.

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  4. Debbie Snider Avatar
    Debbie Snider

    Love this and love your posts. I’m so glad I’m not the only one that realizes the ribbons (especially placements) aren’t the exciting part of the game. I love being a team with my dogs, and seeing us improve. I do like to pass. I like to move up for a new challenge. It shows I haven’t wasted my time training, and you learn something when you lose. And you’re going to spend the money to play whether or not you qualify. I like Scent Work because my dogs love it. I don’t know what to do with all the ribbons. And I know from experience that when you lose your precious dog, those ribbons do nothing to ease the pain. Keep those posts coming! 😊

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  5. Carrie Kessler Avatar

    An excellent reminder about what’s most important! I don’t trial but I do train Water Leak Detection dogs and their handlers. If a team looses joy and fun in working, the relationship is jeopardized, then why will the dog keep working?
    I’m stealing the quote! Thank you!!!

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  6. Martha Ortmann Avatar
    Martha Ortmann

    I have a calm, methodical dog and he probably will never place (he placed in the ribbons all through AKC novice) I always remember what a bomb dog/ nose work trainer said to me: He would pick my dog for Bomb detection The rest of the dogs in the class would find the bomb once and go boom So many amazing things about nose work the placements are minor to me

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  7. Susan Lamb Avatar
    Susan Lamb

    The quote is from a Joyce Meyer book titled: “Authentically and Uniquely You.” Your article is fabulous!

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    1. ellenheavner Avatar

      Thank you so much!!!

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A Scent Work trainer, instructor, competitor, student, and judge. Welcome to Sniffing Around Scent Work, a blog where I write about my experiences, thoughts and musings on my favorite past time.